What to Wear to a Party

Life is full of ups and downs, and when we focus on the ups, the downs don't seem so bad!  Each year has it's share of wonderful celebrations... first dates, engagements, weddings, anniversaries... birthdays, graduations, vacations and holidays... there's so much to look forward to.  You may not know exactly when you'll be going to a formal event - those things seem to pop up when they're least expected - so it's nice to be ready in advance.

Keep an eye out for dressy clothes throughout the year.  You can always find something on sale, especially after new year's eve and Valentine's day; after proms and graduations in June and after the summer weddings in the fall.  If you see something you love at regular price, buy it - if it's affordable.  If it isn't, keep going back.  See if they slash the price.  If they don't, no big deal.  You'll find an alternative that will work just as well.  That's the beauty of planning ahead and giving yourself plenty of time.

When you find the right dress or pants and top, start looking for shoes, jewelry, a scarf or wrap (if needed), a coat or jacket, and a bag.  You may have some of those items already, but if you don't, look for them.  A big part of success is just showing up - being present, consistent, and making an effort.  It's true with shopping, too.  In order to find what you want at an excellent price, you have to look.  Go to the mall when you can, but if your time is limited, check on line.

I find it helpful to have two outfits in the same color family: one more sexy and one more conservative.  You can often use the same jewelry and shoes for both.  Party wear usually doesn't go out of style that quickly.  It lasts for several seasons.  If you aim to find one hot little number every year, you'll always have something cute to wear to any special occasion, so you never have to be stressed out.  That's what our goal is... not just to look great, but to feel great, so we can enjoy every minute of life - especially the "ups"!

Another way to ensure you feel fabulous when you get dressed up is to exercise regularly so you don't have to worry about your clothes fitting properly right before a party. No matter what you put on, you'll be even more amazing if you can stand up tall and hold your tummy in.  Unfortunately, we can't rush out and buy a strong, healthy body at the last minute!  Spend a little "me time" every week, doing workouts you enjoy that keep you fit and toned. There's a fun one to try below.

I think it's so exciting to go out and have a fantastic time when I feel like I look the best I can.  I love it when my husband smiles at me and I can relax and enjoy being on a romantic date with him instead of worrying about if I look OK or not.  Feeling beautiful is a gift we give ourselves.  We deserve it!

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